No, I'm not talking about those topics on chemistry where you study about how to extract things or solvents or any object or metal from something else. I'm talking about something metaphorically. Methods of extraction when it comes to emotions. You can say I'm talking about how you act when you have a certain emotion over-ruling you.For instance let's take you to be nervous, or tensed, stressed or any emotions along the tonnes of these ones, how do you act? Certainly your behavior changes and you act a tad differently so the emotion doesn't stay on top of you.When you're tensed you might start eating loads or sleeping or hogging the internet for hours or something, same might be if you're depressed about something. When you're nervous you start to fidget a lot and have no way to stop cause you constantly think over the stuff that might make you start to act so much more. The easiest way of stopping these actions may only be if you keep them off your own mind, and you somehow distract yourself and the sooner you know it'll all be over. Just like when it's the time of your result; what do you do? You get nervous and start thinking that what if you failed and then you start losing your confidence in yourself and a ton of other emotion start to boil up- a domino effect you can say. The only way not to be so is if you keep confidence in yourself. That's an easy thing to say isn't it? You may do so but then due to something you might again start the domino effect of your emotions, so for that not to happen all you have to do is keep cool and go with the flow. Don't be so tough on yourself.
Tuesday, 22 January 2013
Thursday, 17 January 2013
Juggling
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Tuesday, 20 November 2012
Fake Condolence
This is mostly happened with every, If not then maybe you have applied with to yourself only, fake condolence.
It's when you give yourself a fake hope that everything is perfect and that everything will work out for you whereas your sub-conscious knows that's not the case.
You are thrown in to an inner turmoil of what to do, what to say, and how to act upon the situation...your final resort it to comfort yourself even if it is fake but gives you a peace of mind, it'll work for you. However when the time of the impending situation starts coming near you start reacting to it and you lose it all, All of the patient cover you had gets blown away and you let lose too many feelings that you had "tried" to suppress.
It's human instinct to run away from a situation which they are not ready to handle, face or speak up to, this is also a mean of running away in the long list of the different methods.
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Tuesday, 13 November 2012
Blast from the past
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Monday, 12 November 2012
A trip to remember...
At the start it all seemed like we were a bunch of tourists who have never gone hiking before as groups of us kept stopping and taking in the sight of took pictures in different poses which striked as a model shoot for some magazine, or a really big family who kept chatting and walking leisurely along the way on a Monday morning.
Soon all of us got divided in to groups or like speeds of a car, fast- average- slow, I myself "enjoyed" the pleasure of being in all the speeds and lastly being stuck in the last speed. Soon enough it all became like a Grand Prix, to race up and reach up to the summit or our finish- to the torturous hike.
When we reached the "wine and dine in" of our hike everyone soon got over the exhaustion and started to let loose and have fun, we wasted all the sudden excitement and energy over the surroundings to make it a memorable day and finished it with a heart warming act by giving eatables to a boy selling bamboo flowers.
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Sunday, 4 November 2012
A hearty welcome after a Ragging
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