Fake Condolence

This is mostly happened with every, If not then maybe you have applied with to yourself only, fake condolence.
It's when you give yourself a fake hope that everything is perfect and that everything will work out for you whereas your sub-conscious knows that's not the case.
You are thrown in to an inner turmoil of what to do, what to say, and how to act upon the situation...your final resort it to comfort yourself even if it is fake but gives you a peace of mind, it'll work for you. However when the time of the impending situation starts coming near you start reacting to it and you lose it all, All of the patient cover you had gets blown away and you let lose too many feelings that you had "tried" to suppress.
It's human instinct to run away from a situation which they are not ready to handle, face or speak up to, this is also a mean of running away in the long list of the different methods.